People send flowers to their friends and loved ones for a variety of reasons, from offering congratulations or sincere condolences, to cheering up someone in the hospital, to saying sorry or even just to make someone feel special. The flowers are only one part of the gift, though. Sending along a nice card as well will ensure the person receiving the gift understands what the flowers are for and how much you care about their friendship or love. Putting everything you want to say into a small flower card can be a bit of a challenge, though, so take a look at these great tips for writing your messages:
Be Specific
Simply saying “Congratulations” or “I’m sorry” often isn’t enough to get your full message across. Be very specific in your card about what the flowers are for, and use names and examples whenever possible. Instead of saying, “I’m sorry,” for instance, say “I’m deeply sorry for hurting your feelings by not inviting you.”
Express Your Feelings
Because the recipient won’t be able to see your face or hear your voice, it’s important to use descriptive words and phrases that will get your emotions across. If you’re giving flowers to someone in the hospital, explain to them how sorry you are they aren’t feeling well, and that you’re sending them positive thoughts, rather than saying a simple “Get well soon.”
Keep it Quick
Flower cards are pretty small, so it’s important to do your best not to be long-winded. Cards should be around two or three sentences at the most, so if you have a lot to say, tell them to expect a phone call or a letter in the mail instead of trying to squeeze everything in.
Mention the Gift
Connect your message with your flowers if you can. If you’ve chosen a specific type of flower, tell them why, to make the gift even more meaningful.
Use a Nice Closing
One of the greatest ways to express emotion, love or care in a message is through the closing. Instead of saying “Best,” for instance, use heartfelt closings like “Yours” or “All my love.”
Common Flower Gifts
Flowers are great gifts for almost any occasion, so there are some events that almost always call for a floral gift. Here are some of the most common reasons to send flowers, and a general example of what you can write in an accompanying flower card, using the tips from above:
Funeral Flowers
“I am so sorry for your loss. I know from all the funny stories you’ve told me about living with Sally how much she meant to you, and I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I’m only a phone call away, and I’m happy to help in any way I can! Much love.”
Apology Flowers
“I truly, deeply regret what I did. I honestly didn’t know at the time how much it would hurt you, and I would take it back if I could. Please accept these roses as a symbol of my sincere apology. I know you may need time before you’re ready to talk, but I’m here whenever you’re ready.”
Congratulations Flowers
“Congratulations on your … ! You truly deserve it, and I know the future holds only great things for you. I thought these daisies were appropriate, since they’re bright and happy, so enjoy!”
Birthday Flowers
“Happy 30th birthday! I saw these colorful tulips, and they made me think of your amazing personality. I hope your special day is full of fun, laughter, friends and family – and, of course, great cake. Have a wonderful day!”
Remember that flowers are a very personal gift, so consider sending one of Teleflora’s hand-delivered bouquets! The recipient will love that the flowers weren’t delivered in a box, and they’ll be able to enjoy them immediately.
Source: Teleflora – Flower Card Sayings and Greetings You Can Use Today!
